@KEMTopTalk Highlights Social Media Censorship

IMG_5241Well today is my birthday and I have to say what a great show but what a shitty birthday. Sorry but that’s just the way I feel.

Needless to say, my guest Coach Crystal was an excellent guest and definitely bought enlightenment to the show. Our discussions today with social media in the present, and the possibility of Twitter purging more then 10 million users according to The Daily Beast where the Adult Community may be shut out of promoting their business when it comes to social media.

Now while I can completely understand the “sensitive media”, in my post http://kinkemagazine.com/blog/open-forum/twitter-about-to-purge-10-million-users – frightening to think that my business can be affected as a result of this.

Why would something like this happen? Crystal bought up very good points on the show in regards to what to say and what not to say, how there isn’t an “undo” button like you would in MS Word and no one will see that error. Such a case as mention was Anthony Wiener who literally shared his wiener for the whole world to see on Twitter when he thought he was sharing a private message to whomever it was he was cheating on his wife with at the time.

We also talked about the unspoken demon of buying followers and how people making themselves out to be something they’re really not. The operative word of the show was definitely deceptive marketing.  Check out any account you may follow on Twitter where a random person has over 100K followers as opposed to a celebrity who has the same, how many retweets are they getting next to the celebrity. If that person didn’t get one retweet within a ten minute span, trust they have bought their dead followers.

Social media, censorship, what to say and what not to say is important on the branding of your company. Buying followers reflects your brand and how you represent yourself.

I want to thank Crystal for coming on the show. Check out her show:

SMALL CHANGES ARE HUGE!!  The motto is: Take one small action every day … watch what happens!  Listen to her on her Google Hangout on Wednesdays at 8 PM ET.

I want to thank piece of shit Optimum for fucking up my connection and having to me to start my show late. (SMH)

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The Difference Between Fantasy and Reality

If there’s one thing I know about myself, people can always talk to me about what’s on their mind and I’m happy for that.

It had me regress to a memory I had of a guy I started speaking to on Twitter, no less, who wanted to share with me what he was looking for in a relationship. We went out for breakfast, and as we ate he proceeded to share with me his woes of what he has experienced in past relationships.  And now he was interested in looking to be involved in a D/s relationship.

Okay, understandable, he’s looking to explore something new I thought to myself, until he graphically explained how he wanted someone to sit on his face (someone like me) – considering the view that sat across from me, sitting on pancakes dripping with syrup was much more enticing. 

I’m pretty sure I established I wasn’t looking for anything serious. Also in financial domination sitting on anyone’s face is not a requirement. I know Domina’s who will wear full clad latex and the man will never see beyond that latex. To me this is true Domination. Why have people gotten lost in the sauce with BDSM?

I’m not sure why guys do not take me seriously at all when I fully express I’m not interested in them in any way shape or form. They think some how some way ,”I’m going to say the right thing and she’s going to change her mind.”

It will never happen, trust me.

Just recently a man on my facebook page unfriend me for that very reason. It came to a point where I stopped answering his emails every time I posted something. And out loud in a post, I told him straight out, “I’m not interested in you….”

Did it really have to go that far? I mean what was wrong with the way I said it privately? 

There are a variety of reasons why people feel the need to pursue or persuade a girl to be with them. And while maybe in movies it’s cute, it’s cute because the leading role is played by Josh Duhamel or Jake Gyllenhaal. But real life is a totally different game and people are truly at a loss.

There’s nothing wrong with knowing your worth. I had a friend a while back advise me on just that. I guess she saw I was just going out with anyone and getting hurt in the process because of MY unrealistic expectations. Knowing your worth is not about finding the most beautiful person on the outside, it’s about finding the most beautiful person on the inside. 

While I may like my eye candy, I still know my worth. And believe me when I tell you, the personality inside will override the eye candy outside.

Relationships are all about chemistry. It is not forced, it’s not a fantasy come true. It’s about a true connection and if only one person is feeling it then it might as well stay a fantasy.

Think of it as a song. All of this music audition shows, have you ever watched one person take a song and just milk the lyric while holding the note thinking that this is going to take them to the top and everyone will remember how they rode that note?

Of course everyone will remember. The will remember the idiot who couldn’t just sing the song.

As for the guy who thought I was going to sit on his face…he eventually unfollowed me on Twitter. I think he realized his “swag” didn’t work on me, nor was it ever going to. 

Why Men are Threatened by Women?

If you think you’re going to read this blog looking for the answer, forget it. I can say a variety of sarcastic things like I did this morning.

Which leads to why I’m writing this in the first place.

This morning I was reading something about the Terms of Service regarding Instagram. As most know, Mark (S)Zuckerberg bought Instagram and to NOT my surprise, he’s fucking it up just as I predicted this summer.

While the filters are all fun, if anyone has noticed I haven’t been utilizing instagram as much as I did this summer. Not because of the TOS but because I get bored easily. And while it was fun for me, it’s kind of played out it’s course.

Again, I’m just speaking for me.

After reading @CynicalLongkat sarcastically and humorous comments, I wrote something funny along the same lines as he when some asshole chimed in the conversation calling me a hater.

A Hater?

Why?

Since when is expressing greed of another is being a hater?

If I choose to make any comments about Mark Zuckerberg it has to do with the mere fact of what the media is discussing, take this article for example from the #NYTimes.http://bits.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/12/17/what-instagrams-new-terms-of-service-mean-for-you/

So now I have someone calling me mindless names and telling me that I need to be fucked with a hard cock because he started a “debate” that I was losing.

Wow….

Lets get the record straight. I like to be fucked with a hard cock because if it’s soft nothing really happens there.

Second, calling someone a hater isn’t starting a debate, you’re name calling.

Third, you’re a life coach? I never heard of any life coaches responding in this manner. He will actually begin a trend where authentic life coaches will call themselves another name so they won’t be associated with stupidity.

Forth, you most likely have a small dick.

ANY MAN who attacks a woman in an open forum clearly has issues within himself.

Men that I encounter on a daily basis, even the sexual pervs have respect.

Why is that? Because the sexual pervs want more and they know how to work there way around getting more so they can get off. It would be pointless to curse you out.

Men who troll find an opening where they can attack women because of their own inability to cope with women who are empowerment, business savvy and possess inner strength. That type of man, ladies, is someone to stay far way from.

They are the ones I watch on Investigation Discovery Channel.

While I don’t have one answer to my questions, I do have another answer that may help. See a psychiatric and for your small penis problem, you just have to live with that.

And I just need to clarify that this is not an attack on all men because most men are pretty good guys, it’s just these mindless assholes that are not even worthy to be regarded as human is the point I hope everyone can understand.

I had to apologize to my Twitter followers because for me, seeing banters of mindless arguments on Twitter is just stupid. Debate, yes, but name calling, no. Twitter is a social network, but a lot of people still haven’t figured that out.

As for Instagram, if you have an account read the TOS, you can delete your account before January 16th without being affected if you chose to.

Thank you for reading. Keep it #KinkE

Until then.

Loves and Hugs,

MB~

 

BTW follow  @CynicalLongkat funny and sarcastic good stuff. 😉