#TheBachelorette E9 – @kaitlynbristowe @haibon_jared @realrealitymag- Down to the Final Four

the-bachelorette-week-5_105The rose ceremony isn’t for an hour into the episode.

Kaitlyn was talking about how more difficult the week will become as she will need to say goodbye to two guys because the next round of dates will be the fantasy over night dates before any families are met.

Usually it’s the other way around. She will be left with four guys and those four guys would be the home town dates where she would meet their families. Why didn’t they do that?

The first date she had was with Ben H., who out of nowhere she had some attraction to him. Was this more than Nick and Shawn?

On a boat sailing the beautiful waters towards Innisfallen Island in Ireland – they spent time together playing hide and seek while back and forth interviews with Ben admitting that he has strong feeling for her but is afraid to share that because he doesn’t want to get hurt.

Understandable. It’s funny though how he had no issue calling her his girlfriend in an earlier episode.

Most guys have said that in past bachelor seasons and I think everyone is confused. No one is boyfriend and girlfriend until it’s just the both of you. And even then while engaged, you’re still boyfriend and girlfriend. Think of how many couple did NOT make it to the altar after making fools of themselves on television.

1436812163_kaitlyn-ben-donkey-zoomDuring their date, while Ben is talking about his last relationships and the ideal relationship and how he feels, Kaitlyn started to wonder if Ben was a virgin and asked him straight forward, his response…..No.

Now that Ben seems to be in the clear (no roses yet), the group date has officially begun, Shawn, Nick and Joe all meeting up with Kaitlyn to talk to her one on one. Kaitlyn, off camera admits there are discussions that need to be had and Shawn is the first one to pull her way.

Notice, Shawn is super possessive. Still unaware that she had sexual relations with Nick earlier in the week or week before. He’s still insecure due to the fact she told him he was it and he got stuck on that one.

Ladies, if you and guy are dating and it’s not serious for you, yet…and you tell him he’s it, he will HARP on that shit forever.

Notice how different she is with Nick than she is with Shawn. She is giddy, she’s vulnerable, and she talks to him like she’s known him her whole life, or is it just the Nick effect? Who knows.

What I think is so stupid, it seems she’s a wasted Bachelorette. If she had such a connection with Nick before this show, why even bother going through all this nonsense. We could have had someone much more fun and entertaining with Kelsey from Farmer Chris season.

UGH watching her and Joe was extremely difficult. He was talking about how he was falling in love with Kaitlyn, he’s kissing her and oh so passionate. Although Kaitlyn is kissing him back, it’s clear these are not kisses she wants to be returning, let alone be in locked in some intimate embrace. Maybe Nick should have interrupted and should have waited till after Joe so he can comfort her.

joe-kaitlyn-kiss-bachelorette-w352It was painfully clear we were reaching an end with her and Joe and after the kissing, Kaitlyn discusses honesty and where he was coming from and where she’s coming from and feeling as they are not on the same page.

While I remain, sometimes being honest means saying, I know you said you fell in love with me, but I’m not feeling the same way. Her round about behavior only seemed to infuriate Joe who copped an attitude really quick. He said things like, “it’s cool, It’s been fun”, very cold and unfeeling.

Kaitlyn asked for a hug goodbye and while he did comply, you can tell her was reeling in anger. He turned and looked at her and asked her, “what do I do now” and Kaitlyn responds, “I just wanted to give you a hug goodbye”, for which Joe replies, “I don’t want to say shit to you right now.”

Had to be the word shit.

Wow where the fuck did that come from?

Talk about pissed. The cameras didn’t even follow him to get feedback. LMAO If I was a camera person, I wouldn’t follow him either.

When Kaitlyn comes back she decides not to give the rose out, telling Nick that she will see him at the rose ceremony and told Shawn they need more time to talk. Shawn thinking this is a special one on one time, little does he know the only reason why she wants to talk to him to tell him that she and Nick had sex. LOL What a dummy.

After some small talk and flirting, she admits she and Nick had sex on their date. Of course now the mood changes and Shawn knows exactly why she called him out for more time. This wasn’t just a regular date. He asked her if she regrets, and she said she felt guilt. Not the answer he wanted to hear I’m sure.
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Why should she regret anything she’s done? If she really didn’t want to have sex with Nick, she wouldn’t have asked him back to her room. But she knew what she wanted. Period. The End!

Shawn, had to take a moment and go to the men’s room probably to punch the sink LOL. (I had to post this pic I found online just too damn funny)

Nick, who’s back in the hotel room, is completely perplexed as to why she didn’t give out a rose. And while he’s complaining about what the fuck is going on, Jared looks like he’s ready to fall asleep, while Ben is assured he will be flying high in the next rose ceremony.

I guess the question would be, was it wise to tell Shawn about her escapade with she and Nick or picking Shawn at the end, and then telling him in private before the show aired.

When Shawn, finally comes out of the bathroom, he admits that he’s upset but he cannot be mad at her, and that it happened, but he loves her and he wants to be with her.

His “not being angry” becomes short lived.

Shawn enters the room and puts his mask on not letting anyone know what transpired on the date and Nick sitting there clueless of the conversation that took place.

The next day is the rose ceremony, Kaitlyn choose not to have any cocktail hour. Her mind has been made up, according to Chris Harrison, who informs them it’s time for the rose ceremony.

Now down to the wire, Shawn still has questions as to what he wants to do. He’s still upset over the fact that she and Nick were intimate together. After her endearing speech on how important these three roses are, she picks up the first rose and calls Shawn and asked him will he accept this rose, his response,

the-bachelorette-shawn-rose-ceremony“I need to talk to you”

The look on her face was absolutely priceless. There was fear and anger all at the same time.

Shawn is upset that it’s Nick she had sex with. If it were anyone else, I don’t think he would be as upset. Why him? He asked and why she would do that to jeopardize them. Really Shawn? Ya got a big head there my friend.

Kaitlyn tells Shawn she’s here to explore other relationships, because after she chooses one, she will never have that opportunity again. And what she said to him a few weeks ago, that he was it, she had no business saying that. I think she realizes when you put your foot in your mouth; you give someone that unrealistic expectation “things will proceed according to plan.”

Kaitlyn left off asking Shawn if he questions her trust, and we never see the answer. They come out of the room and back to the rose ceremony, once again asking Shawn if he will accept her rose.

“Absolutely”

The last two roses she hands out to Ben H. and then Nick, leaving Jared hurt.

Screen-shot-2015-07-07-at-8.37.32-PMJared the next bachelor? Wouldn’t be surprised. He’s a cutie, in a fishy sort of way.

If anyone who cried more saying goodbye was Kaitlyn while Jared was comforting her telling her it was okay.

Gosh that was so hard to watch. Admittedly I had my own waterworks going on watching him in the limo.

Hard….just touch. Broken hearts suck. He left with his head up high. I think the only one who didn’t leave with a grandiose attitude. Despite of me calling him a fish kisser, Jared is a person who deserves a great woman, clearly Kaitlyn is not that woman, for him.

Now that Jared is gone, Kaitlyn proceeds with her overnight dates, first with Nick.

It is very apparent that Nick and Kaitlyn have a very strong connection together. They traveled throughout and exploring Ireland. They stopped at a Cathedral Church, a bar and some kind of castle jail. It comes up during their date, Nick begins discussing someone who he doesn’t respect, and has insecurities and admits he’s talking about Shawn and his concerns over him.

The minute they get into this deep conversation, a storm begins to brew.

Coincidence?

Was Nick right in saying anything about Shawn? Or is it about jealous emotions like Kaitlyn stated.

After taking Nick to a prank fantasy suite, they head over to the real suite, where Nick expresses more of his love to her.

I know people are not Nick fans because he disclosed his intimacy with Andi and quite honestly I’m not sure what is the big deal. I said this before and I’ll say it again. The fantasy suite, they are fucking, if anyone thinks any different, you’re stupid.

The next day, Kaitlyn and Nick are eating breakfast looking like a natural couple. I can only imagine Shawn watching this. He looks like he has anger issues.

And not wanting to let go what Kaitlyn shared with him, he calls the hotel concierge to find out where Nick’s room to confront him as to why he’s there. All throughout the interviews, he would refer to him as, “the other guy”.

I don’t’ know if I saw this for myself, I wouldn’t go with Shawn. There are a lot of control issues there.

Their confrontation turns into an argument.

To be continued….

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#TheBachelorette – E7 – Sex in Ireland @kaitlynbristowe @viallnicholas28 @chrisbharrison

ian confronting kaitlynWe left off on E6 with arrogant Ian calling Kaitlyn all sorts of names in his “monotone” voice calling her shallow and a surface person, all because there was no connection between them.

Ian seems very confused on what he saw on television with Kaitlyn and what he met he met in real life because she’s making out with other guys and not with him. I mean let’s call it what it is…the man is upset because Kaitlyn is not into him.

Using terms like, “surface level’, and wanting to be “plowed by Chris Soules”, is just fucking low class. So if he wanted to leave he should have just said look it’s not working out for me, see you later, instead he went on the attack.

“Ian, my friend, take the hit like a man and walk off with your head up high instead of up your ass.”

Ian left on a very sour note and made it worse for himself when he made the comment in the limo how he was going to have sex. Well good for him. Seems he needs a dick up in his ass to follow. Don’t let the door hit you on the way out. BTW the last thing ABC wants to do is have Ian as the Bachelor. This would be a BIG mistake and any woman who would want a man like this is suffering from some serious low self esteem issues. Stay far away from this one.

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I think this whole scenario left Kaitlyn speechless because her looks said it all and if she defended herself honestly to Ian, there would have been more bleeping in Bachelor history next to the insignificant rose to Justin when Nick came on to the scene.

After Ian’s departure, Nick was there to comfort her and while Shawn was looking for her, he just happened to catch them in a making out session, just as earlier he saw her making out with Joe. While the process is shitty, the fact of the matter is, in real life, would anyone see another person making out with them…no. This just happens to be an open dating scene where everyone gets to see and know everything that’s going on in the other relationships. That’s why it’s The Bachelor.

So with Ian being gone does that mean that Joshua was spared?

062215-kaitlynroseceremony the alamoThe guys and Kaitlyn head over to The Alamo for the rose ceremony which goes as follows:

Jared, Cupcake Chris, JJ (Why????), Joe, Ben Z., Tanner. The guys that went home were Justin and Joshua which was to be expected. So Joshua was not saved from the Ian departure; however I’m not sure why she kept JJ or even Tanner for that matter. The times of Bachelor sure have changed and while the rules still apply about waiting till the end to disclose any feelings, sometimes not all the roses will be given out.

The last of the guys standing now for the next round of dates: Shawn, Nick, Ben H., Jared, Cupcake, JJ, Joe, Ben Z. and Tanner.

I was happy to see the Queen off.

Their next stop Chris Harrison announces is Dublin, Ireland and while they’re cheering, outside of the mansion shows and upset and hurt Joshua listening to the  cheers coming from inside. Boo hoo.

Now in Dublin, Kaitlyn walks in to greet the guys and she’s the date card to tell the guys who’s going on the first one on one date with her…I’m sure it’s Nick.

Surprise….

kaitlyn and nick in dublinOn the date with Nick they walked around the town of Dublin, taking in the sites. Just seeing how Nick is with Kaitlyn, he seems the ideal guy, almost too good to be true kind of a guy. (I may have said the same exact for the Andi season.) Can a guy be really that sweet and loving? Thinking back in the Andy season he’s definitely different but he still has that swag. Quite honestly I can watch him all day. It makes me forget there are other guys waiting at the hotel for a date card. I also think their relationship is right where it’s supposed to be like any new relationship you should be making out and grinding all the time!

Back at the hotel, the date card arrives, with a riddle from Chris Harrison and the attendees as follows:  Tanner, Ben Z., Shawn, Jared, Ben H. and Cupcake Chris, which leave the two on one date with Joe and JJ. Now this can go either way. Either Kaitlyn will pick Joe and can JJ OR they both leave. Either way, one of them is going and I believe Kaitlyn will be saying goodbye to JJ and then he can be free to be with Clint.

Back on the date with Kaitlyn and Nick, it’s now nightfall in Dublin, dinner time was spent with a lot of kissing and of course no hesitation on Nick accepting the rose and no long speeches from Kaitlyn before she gave it to him. Not wanting the date to end, she asks him if he wants to come back to her room, “yeah”. Why would Nick say no to that? Realizing this is the episode she has sex with Nick being all of the promos gave you the heads up about that. We just wasn’t sure it happened with Nick and where it would happen.

kaitlyn and nick in hotel room dublinAnd no time is wasted when they go into her room and you hear the sheets rustling, the heaving breathing and the kissing. The rest was left to our imagination as the camera person in the room was picking up the sound from behind the door.

I think Chris Harrison was right, this is the most dramatic season of the Bachelorette. What I thought was going to be boring, Nick just bought it home. Reminds me so much of Andi season. It would have been such a snoozefest without Nick being there and making women feel like women. Yum yum!

And while Shawn is upset by the mere fact that Nick is with Kaitlyn and that he didn’t get a one on one date, I don’t think anyone noticed Nick didn’t come back to his room. Not quite sure how the set up was with the room stay, I’m sure all the guys had their own room (not like ABC can’t afford it). Usually the guys are still up waiting to hear what happened on the date, so they should have noticed when he didn’t come back, even with separate rooms.

kaitlyn on balcony in dublinThe next day, while Kaitlyn doesn’t blatantly admit that she had sex with him (could it be the glow on her face gave it away), she did mention in her interview it wasn’t the act that made her feel guilty it was more feeling guilty about the other guys who are there and she doesn’t want them to know what happened. While she was on the balcony talking to one of the producers, her attitude changed from glowing to sheer terror at the fear of any of the guys finding out what she did, most likely Shawn only because she has a connection with him that noticeably is not with the other guys.

The next day while Nick was sharing his date, I’m watching the intense scene play out in the hopes that Nick doesn’t open up his big mouth and Joe didn’t help when he mentioned how Shawn has extra time with Kaitlyn recently. That comment only seemed to make Nick talk more so he can throw jabs at Shawn.

For the group date, here was something that’s been never done before. Kaitlyn played dead for an Irish wake so the guys can each share their moments and/or experience in remembrance of Kaitlyn – the only one who took it seriously was Ben Z. due to his mom passing when he was a teenager. He asked the guys to give them a moment and left them both alone so he can share his feelings, vividly upset and when he wanted to make it light hearted as he mentioned in his interview. His feelings superseded the jokes and he said exactly how he felt.

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After the Irish wake they meet at the Guinness Storehouse where she greets all the guys with a rose on the table waiting to be handed out for the group date. Poor Ben Z, he seems so lost in the shuffle right now. He pulled Kaitlyn aside to talk more about the whole Irish wake thing but I think this is just a relationship lost. I don’t see anything happening here. It’s pretty much done and it’s sad because he seems like such a great guy but this is not a couple that should be together.

As for Kaitlyn and Jared, I almost feel like every time he’s with her, he has his face in hers. Like give the girl some air dude. I feel like when I’m watching him I’m left wondering, when was the last time he had a girlfriend.  Kaitlyn mentions in her interview that the last time she saw Jared he mentioned he was falling in love with her which she thought was really nice….if that’s not an indicator that she’s not feeling the same way, I’m not sure what is. I can’t even watch him kissing her. He reminds me of a fish.

kaitlyn_shawn jealousShawn is still harping on her date with Nick showing clear jealousy looming over his head like a halo looming over a saint. I’m not sure at this point if anyone suspects Kaitlyn had sex with Nick but I have a feeling it will come out somehow. And he takes full advantage of his one on one time, instead of focusing on Nick with his one on one time with her, he shares pictures of his family and shares a little bit of his life with her, which is the right thing to do. The last thing anyone wants on a date is to talk about another person which is what Queen Joshua did that’s why he’s not there anymore.

With the rose on the table, Kaitlyn decides to give Jared the rose….huh? After all that Shawn share with her?

Really she wants to spend the rest of the evening with Fish? I can’t.

Now here’s where she wasted a good rose after giving the rose to Jared the Fish they share a moment with none other than The Cranberries!!!!!! Having Shawn miss out on the perfect moment????? So wrong, wrong, wrong!

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It’s crazy how the guys are sitting there wondering what the fuck did Jared do that they didn’t do. Believe me, I’m wondering the same damn thing.

Shawn is clearly having a hard time with the whole process, pulls one of the producers aside and says to him that he can’t do it anymore. It’s become too much for him and he goes to her hotel room to confront her and find out what is going on….

The drama continues next week.

PS: I need a Nick in my life who will kiss me just like that! LOL

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#TheBachelorette @kaitlynbristowe @chrisbharrison E6 – Queen Joshua against the Emperor Nick

kaitlyn and the bachelors citifieldThe episode opens with the anticipated rose ceremony since Nick is now part of the boys team and he didn’t garner a date but episode five showed us he didn’t need a date, he just should’ve gotten the rose on the group date he bombed. And yes, true though Justin got the rose that was the most meaningless rose in Bachelor/Bachelorette history.
In the meantime, The Bachelorette crew heads over to Citifields for the rose ceremony where JJ, grabbing Kailtyn, carrying her and running around Citifields like a fool while all the guys are in a “corner” expressing their concerns with Nick possibly getting a rose and taking away a rose from someone that has been there.
The one guy who Kaitlyn had major concerns with since having Nick as part of the crew was Shawn, which I still believe she will end up being with. And if I didn’t say it before, I will say it now, if it comes down to the two guys, it will be Shawn and Nick.
It was clear that Kailtyn was very upset with Shawn and the things he mentioned to her being their relationship has just taken a step back because of Nick made it all too real of the decision she just made.
Not seeing she spent any time with Nick, (probably landed on the cutting room floor) the following roses were handed out:
Ben H., Ben Z, Shawn, Tanner (why I’m not sure), Joe, Ian (no connection there and wasted a rose), JJ (another wasted rose), Joshua, and the final rose went to Nick.
And all dramatic music blaring before she handed the last rose to Nick, we all knew that was coming. Are you kidding me? Did we all believe she would have him there and not give him a rose.
We said goodbye to Jonathon, Corey, and two other guys…( I can’t remember their names nor did I bother to rewind or check the site to see because I’m behind and don’t want to spoil my sarcastic comments)
The crew now heads over to San Antonio, Texas, after freezing their asses off in Citifields, NYC. Why couldn’t they were coats during the rose ceremony. Nick was so cold his lips were turning blue.
Speaking of Nick….LOL Notice how all the guys favorite topic is Nick, Nick, Nick. It makes me wonder who’s obsessed more, Kaitlyn or the guys. They’re main concern should be is getting one on one time because some guys have not, someone like Ian, who we’re all left wondering why is he still there?
There’s absolutely no chemistry whatsoever, so it’s becoming like Unreal from Lifetime, let’s keep the black guy just for television and nothing more.
The date card arrives and the first one on one date is with Ben H. And while he heads to the date with her, all the guys press their sorry faces on the window staring down at her as she leaves with Ben H. – that is until they sit down and focus on Nick yet again questioning his motives and why is he there. Why are they focused on Nick? Why so concerned with Nick? What happened to thinking about how to establish a relationship with Kaitlyn? They sure like to point the finger.
Past experience has shown that when you point the finger at someone else, there are three pointing back at you. (Think about that one).

THE BACHELORETTE - "Episode 1105" - After the rose ceremony, the remaining men travel to San Antonio. Kaitlyn surprises one bachelor with a day of fun and fancy footwork. The couple spends the day with a professional dance coach, who teaches them the Texas two-step for a competition that night before a raucous audience and judges. Later, a cinematic sunset is the backdrop for the two to get closer. The man stuns Kaitlyn with a heartbreaking story about a past relationship gone wrong. Will that affect whether he gets a rose? - on "The Bachelorette," MONDAY, JUNE 15 (8:00-10:01 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network. (ABC/Felicia Graham) KAITLYN BRISTOWE, BEN H.

The date with Ben H. was absolutely boring. The two step dance put me to sleep, but I have to say, it has to be more fun to in real life instead of watching on television or maybe it was just Ben H. and Kaitlyn who made it so boring.  After all of the dancing it was almost expected that the date would end with a kiss.

Back at the room, everyone patiently awaits for the date card fearing that Nick will get the one on one date. So funny how pathetic most of these guys are, and the moment of truth comes for the group date:
Justin, Jared, Ian, Chris, Tanner, Joe, JJ, Ben Z., Joshua, Nick – which leaves Shawn getting the one on one time with Kaitlyn. No common sense needed here. Shawn should have know he was getting the one on one date. Kailtyn played strategically well, ensuring that her relationship with Shawn is on solid ground.
Joshua, in this particular episode has been capped at the Drama Queen. I never heard a man bitch and complain so much as he has throughout the whole episode.
kaitlyn and ben h.During the dinner portion of the one on one with Ben H., he seemed to have issues opening up to Kaitlyn about past relationships and what he’s learned. Makes me wonder was this one on one date the process of elimination for Kaitlyn to find out if this is person she wants to be with because I really didn’t see why she would have a one on one with him in the first place. She brings up the fact he’s 26 years old which she questions, is he ready to get down on one knee at the end of all this. Are these clues to say, he’s not getting a rose or getting a reprieve for one more episode. Of course not, listen to the music in the background change to a lighthearted tune tells you that he was getting a rose. Snoozer.
The next day, the group date crew is greeted by a Mexican mariachi band with a cute little boy singing a very old Spanish song. After the cute little boy serenades Katilyn, he goes on to tell them they have to invent their own lyrics and perform them in front of Kaitlyn. Another snoozer of group dates. WTF?
Someone….please bring back the stupid jumping off building dates…thank you.
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I can’t tell you how embarrassing it is to have to watch this, let alone how embarrassing it is for the guys who have to perform like a bunch of idiots. If any man had to do this on a date with me, I would walk away. Enough with the stupidity of having to invent lyrics and have them sing.  Of course when Nick took Kaitlyn up to the balcony to perform everyone had a hissy fit, especially for Joshua, who’s now more focused on Nick than he is on Kaitlyn.
The group now reconvenes at a lounge area where they get to have their one on one time (one at a time), with Joshua getting a hair cut by Kaitlyn (I thought she was a dancer? #sarcasm). Now I’m confused, what was the point of Kaitlyn giving Joshua a buzz cut/Mohawk?
When he got back all the guys laughed at him asking him what happened. Maybe he should be the court jester instead.
While the guys are laughing at Joshua and his poor buzz cut, Nick takes away Kaitlyn for some one on one kissy kissy time. I would like to know how Nick kisses. This man is so passionate it’s almost understandable as to why guys wouldn’t dig him. He’s like the jock of the crew.
Notice Joshua gets a fucked up haircut and Nick gets to make out with her.
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When he gets back, there’s silence in the room before Joshua decides to open up his mouth about how he does not trust Nick and his motives. I’m not sure why they keep holding what happened with him and Andi against him. Andi was not a victim. She wanted to have sex with Nick! It’s over, it happened; they had sex, period the end. For some reason all of these guys are acting like he did something bad. If any one of them landed in the top three with the option for the fantasy sweet, not only will they say yes, they all know deep down inside they would consummate that relationship and not think twice about it even if the relationship ends, they got some ass in the process. Please, let’s be real here….(“true love people, true love”)
Frustrated that his argument with Nick went no where, he runs over to Kaitlyn and has an unnerving conversation throwing Nick under the bus and saying everyone is lying to her face and when Kaitlyn confronted all the guys with Joshua in tow they all looked at Joshua like, “we don’t know what you’re talking about dude.” In the meantime, Joshua lied to the guys he was on an interview which he wasn’t, he was busy filling up Kaitlyn with BS so he can get that rose and thought the guys would back him up.
I’m not sure why Kaitlyn would entertain that BS. I mean really who cares if the guys like or don’t like Nick. This is about her quest for love, is it not? At the end of the day, I would think the most important people who should like Nick is her family and not a bunch of guys she will lose contact with after the final rose has been handed out. It’s not like they are going to be friends and be over for a BBQ. #UnReal 😉
With Joshua looking like a fool, lying to the guys he was doing an interview, and looking more like a fool after Kaitlyn confronted the guys and didn’t back Joshua up, Kaitlyn took the group date rose and gave it to Nick.
Good. Right in Queen Joshua’s face! I’m sure he’s going home.
Shawn, who now has the one on one date with Kaitlyn is super excited to have this time with her.
Clearly there’s some connection going on here because you can see her demeanor is different with him than she is with all of the other guys. I haven’t seen a connection like this with any of the other guys. Well, except for Nick.
kaitlyn and shawnOn their date, Shawn shared with her about a serious car accident he had and how a cop had told him that it was a miracle he survived a car accident like that. After he shares the story, there’s a silence and he tells her that he’s falling in love with her.
I noticed something replayed time and time again. It seems the ones who fall in love, doesn’t go out of their way to behave like they have something to prove. The connection will either be there or not. I think with Nick it’s like this forbidden exploration whereas Shawn is the rock that will keep her grounded and where they have a deep connection other than lust. This date proved that, but we’re only in episode five.
As for Ian, he’s just realizing that he won’t get a one on one date and this connection with Kaitlyn is merely he just going out on one group date after another. Surprisingly Ian confides in Nick, perhaps

because at this point, he has nothing to lose but to move on.
The cocktail party has now dawned upon in San  Antonio, Texas and Joshua the Queen is starting to realize he fucked up, especially when he just kept throwing Nick under the bus and left alone to his demise when he confronted all the guys in front of Kaitlyn, expecting for everyone to side with him and confess they all have been trash talking Nick.
JARED, KAITLYN BRISTOWEJared takes her aside and has his one on one time with her. He has a rose locked in, nothing to worry about there. I’m sure he will be at least the top six and probably will be on Bachelor in Paradise.
Ian has taken his opportunity on interviews to trash talk Kaitlyn because he hasn’t has any connection with her at all. The comment about her not being half as hot as his ex girlfriend makes me wonder why he’s not with his ex girlfriend. Furthermore, this whole innuendo about him being the bachelor and how he’s a gift women can unwrap was just fucking classless. Any woman that dates this guy has low self esteem.
When he pulled Kaitlyn aside for his one on one, it was clear, he was going to say all the things he said on his interview and the conversation turned bad from the moment he opened his mouth. Here’s one statement he made that should have gotten him a slap in the face:
“I came here expecting to meet the girl that had her heart broken and was devastated by Chris Soules, not the girl who that wanted to her field plowed by Chris and to me I feel like I found that there’s still that girl and I feel you are here to make out with a bunch of dudes on TV. “
WHAT THE FUCK…ian confronts kaitlyn