Does Success Derive from Humility?

Seems to be the question of the moment for me after watching Robin Meade this morning report in the news on Kanye’s rant at SNL. Was this before or after the “sweet” Taylor Swift not only accepted her award but reminded everyone when you work hard, accept the rewards [awards] with gratitude and never let anyone tell you different.

Well she didn’t put it in those exact words but you get the message right?

When Ms. Swift made her speech I didn’t feel she was just speaking to Mr. West (y’all) but speaking with anyone and everyone who aspires to be something great, whatever that greatness may be in a positive light.

Yes, there are many who believe because they arrived at a certain point in their lives, they believe they can be the misfit of society, “I want what I want and I want it now”, type of attitude that generates the group of haters and the obnoxious individuals that will not only support said behavior but also continue to make themselves broke supporting said behavior.

Kinda dumb isn’t it?

Look, I’m not a Kayne hater. I don’t sit back trolling the internet saying, “what am I going to say bad about him today”. A true hater does everything they can to continue to rise the hate within themselves over someone else’s successes (I thought I should point that out because there are many delusional people out there who have limited vocabulary and understand the meaning of true hate). Scary to know in this day and age we have more of those than we do people supporting one another in their good causes.

2005_Penny_Rev_Unc_D.pngSpeaking of causes, can someone confirm Kanye actually has a go fund me page, so I can chip in my penny.

But seriously. The thing that irks me the post is when Mr. West compares himself of great artists of our time. I cannot sit here and say, I write like the great Jackie Collins or Stephen King. I write like I know how to write and express myself. However, I always remember there’s always room to learn and grow from my writing habits and styles in expressing not only for me but for whomever decides to read my material.

I’m in the process of writing a very personal love story and rewriting another book I actually finished but now must make major changes. I think when you have a gift, you find a way to channel that gift so you can share with the world (if you choose), or help other people. We’re not dummies to take those gifts and make money from them, especially if they are the choice for career. It’s what happens when you become recognized for your work and the money comes flowing in.

bedroom setHow does anyone handle that only remains to be seen with each individual person. If there’s one thing I don’t talk about much is my interview with 50 Cent. One thing he mentioned in his interview about obtaining money, buying the mansion with a bunch of rooms but you can only sleep in one bed (my apologies not verbatim).

I have been broke and broker than broke. I have set up go fund me pages to help start up a studio for KEM TopTalk in the past and guess what…. no one gave a shit even while people do enjoy the show. By the way, my show will be coming back soon. My life was at a standstill and now I’m building my own studio in my apartment. ūüôā

Sometimes there are things we don’t like doing to get where we are going. When I got clean and sober in 1991 I remember people telling me ‘it will get better’. I wanted to believe in my head, if I took a break from drinking I can regroup and drink again.

Almost 25 years later. (Hang tight June 16th I’ll have 25 years of sobriety).

So, does humility have something to do with getting somewhere in life and/or meeting your goals. Yes.

But once you’ve met¬†your successes and¬†goals, what happens next?

Success, fame, entertaining is a hard pill to swallow. Every day I ask myself what kind of person will I be once I’ve attained the status I am looking to gain? Am I afraid? Of course, who wouldn’t be? My belief system has always been, “with good intent”.

I have seen people acquire their statuses through fake story telling or fake positions they tell people they’ve had and when they didn’t. I have had people say things about my magazine and where are they now? Once you put yourself in line to say you have something better, you better be prepared to live up to your words.

“Comparing is never a winning concept. Individuality is.” (as quoted by Marabelle Blue~)

Stay humble Kanye. Stay humble.giphy

Until then.

Loves and Hugs and Take Care of You!

Marabelle Blue~

 

 

@KEMTopTalk Welcomes @BettanyHalle aka Cassandre Dayne

CDayneAfter a bout with sickness and recovering last week I’m¬†¬†back with a great show featuring Cassandre Dayne, erotic and thriller author of more than one hundred and seventy books. Her bio below:

Cassandre Dayne is the award winning, best selling author of over one hundred and seventy books She is also a blog talk radio host of ‚ÄėThe Edge‚Äô, highlighting authors, publishers and other artists who take their creative pieces to a raw and unconventional precipice. Her works as Cassandre have delved into various aspects of BDSM, D/s, edge play, domestic discipline, LGBT, poems and dark thrillers in books as well as her widely read blog. She also has a love of all things terrifying and pens horror and paranormal pieces. Cassandre is an advocate for education and continued understanding of a true D/s lifestyle, one widely mistaken as a form of abuse.

Cassandre and I talked about a wide range of topics from where her inspiration drives from, a woman’s preservative on serial killers, spanking fictions, BDSM and lots more. Master_Vyle joined in the chat room. Lots of good points were bought up on the show especially when we talked about the lack of sex education and the choices that any woman or man can make to protect themselves from STD and parenthood, which sadly is still a trending problem.

Honorable mentions and shout outs where made throughout the show:

Ray Sostre (@anarchy0029), Robert Ropars (@robertropars), Planet L*A*W (@planet12law), Danny Blaq (@dannyblaqvideos), Sin City 411 (@SinCity_411), Sybian (@sybianmaker), Galen Fous (@FetishSexExpert), Master Vyle (@Master_Vyle), Kimmie Kaboom (@TheKimmieKaboom)

Remember there’s still time to sign up for our Vegas event but don’t wait too long! Book your rooms directly with Rumor Vegas using offer code “Kink Entertainment” to get the discounted room rate¬†877-997-8667 all other info purchasing packages which include a gift bag with lots of great stuff should sign up www.eventsbymblue.com

Look out for our new issue coming out soon www.kinkemagazine.com and of course replays of the show can be found here http://www.blogtalkradio.com/kinkemagazine or here www.kemtoptalk.com

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Thanks for listening!

Loves and Hugs,

MB~

@KEMTopTalk Guest @Master_Vyle Horror Writer

MV Author 017Master Vyle joined me tonight for a very funny episode of @KEMTopTalk.

In this episode we discussed the various sites that were around (and probably still are) back in the early 2000’s when the internet was really born and people started utilizing it more than actually going out and communicating with people LOL.

Now tucked into our online world, Master Vyle discusses the trolls of the internet and how plagiarizing is an easy access for “writers” who take writings from other people’s works and incorporate it as their own.

We also discussed the calamity of clicks and why for business it may not be good to attach yourself to those who are not the right audience for your business or in the end will support your business/cause.

Master Vyle took the liberty of sharing his book which he’s actually rewriting and then read us some fun porn stories which left me wondering, “did someone really write this”

Of course we must share the story but not before a bit of promos that were mentioned during the show!

For more on Master Vyle check him out at the follow social networks:

Master Vyle on Twitter @Master_Vyle and his blogs www.houseofmastervyle.blogspot.com and mastervylepresents.blogspot.com

Professor Gillman who was also mentioned on the show has a Livestream show Saturday The Peninsula Of Horror and you can link up with him here: www.livestream.com/tpoh and the convention he will be attending http://oasfis.org/oasis/events.php

kemtoptalk-logoLG600Next week on @KEMTopTalk guest Adult Entrepreneur Gia Moore! You can follow Gia on Twitter @GiaMoore69 and @GiaMoorePerfume

We’re looking forward to having her on the show next week LIVE at 9PM EST!

Stay tuned for show updates by following us on www.blogtalkradio.com/kinkemagazine where you can download and listen via podcast apps and all shows can now be found on www.kemtoptalk.com

Honorable mentions to Robert Ropars (@robertropars) and you can pick up his book here called The Vengeance on Amazon http://www.amazon.com/Vengeance-Robert-Ropars-ebook/dp/B007KWELJW/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1429674881&sr=1-1&keywords=the+vengeance+robert+ropars

Of course here are the links to the Las Vegas Event celebrating the milestones of Kink~E Magazine www.eventsbymblue.com and www.kinkemagazine.com

You must sign up with the hotel Rumor Vegas before July or you will not get the discounted rate. Don’t wait till the last minute as rooms are running¬†out fast!

Thanks for listening the show and replays are up right now! ūüôā

Until then. Take care of you!

Loves and Hugs,
MB~

And here is the expert Master Vyle read:

Mom Needs It Too by Ron Taylor 

Leanne exploded with a scream. Her pussy muscles contracted, and she literally fucked the vibrator out of her rippling hole, expelling it like an asshole might squirt a fresh turd.¬† She heard the pop, and then Rosie’s mouth covered her cunt and resumed the hot sucking that had helped Leanne get to this point. Rosie’s finger was buried up Leanne’s shitter, and the tip wiggled madly deep inside.¬†

Leanne kept on eating. She wasn’t sure how she managed. It must have been instinct alone that drove her tongue and finger in and out of Rosie’s cunt and asshole. Leanne’s orgasm raged and she moaned and licked and licked and moaned, and she squirmed like a beached fish atop her hot-bodied friend.¬†

And…¬†

The big cock probed the interior of her shit-chute. The cock knob was the size of an apple, buried in her ass-guts, stirring her shit, and she writhed upon the impaling fucker like an insect pinned to a board.